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Feb 04, 10 10:28am - Comments

Speaking on the Women in Social Media Panel with Meghan, Casey and Alexa.

Go here and here for recaps.

Feb 02, 10 9:43am - Comments
Jan 23, 10 5:18pm - Comments

FROM READER KT:

jordan, i’m curious about your foodie thoughts on meat-eating. it would be great if you could devote a post or two to it. you post all the time about delicious meat dishes you’ve eaten, and it’s also clear from your blog that you love your pet animals… so i’d like to hear how you reconcile those two passions.

i ask as a person who thinks meat is delicious, but recently stopped eating it. i read jonathan safran foer’s book on factory farming when it came out in november (your “pescatarian” business partner posted about it, it’s called Eating Animals). anyway, after reading it i made a commitment to stop eating factory farmed meat and to seek out local, cruelty free sources for dairy products and eggs. i live in rural ohio (not far from berlin, actually) so i have some good options nearby. but because just about all the meat available in this country is raised and slaughtered in astonishingly inhumane conditions, i’ve given it up.

as someone who clearly loves and respects animals, have you done any research into meat farming? how do you make decisions about the kind of meat you eat? is it something you just try not think about?

i hope you won’t be offended by the questions i’m asking. i’d like to know what you think.

MY REPLY: 

Totally interesting question, and of course I’m not offended! I guess this is one of those topics about which I’m somewhat (very?) hypocritical. Animals - and especially animals in need - absolutely break my heart, and yet I frequently bypass the free-range organic chicken breasts in favor of Perdue when my bank account dictates that I should go for the cheaper stuff. When I do this, do I think about how many of these animals are treated (in your accurate words, they are “raised and slaughtered in astonishingly inhumane conditions”)? Yes. And do I sometimes buy it anyway? Yes. 

I don’t think that eating meat is a bad thing (although it’s not for everybody), and I don’t think that it’s particularly realistic to expect all meat-eaters to choose cruelty-free brands — because lots of people simply can’t afford that stuff, and, as you said, it’s not available everywhere you go. Also, I don’t draw a moral divide between different types of meat; to me, fish is the same as beef is the same as chicken is the same as lamb (although I wouldn’t eat dog or cat, and I’m still exploring why I feel one way about some animals and a different way about others; I just don’t know). For me, what works is to be aware of my choices, and to choose correctly whenever possible. Basically, just to do the best I can. 

Next week, I’m butchering a pig at Ottomanelli Bros (not slaughtering, just learning about different parts and how to cut them). I’ve thought a lot about how I feel about doing this, and the conclusion I arrived at is that while I may be uncomfortable with the idea, it’s my very discomfort that makes doing this so important. I want to know what it is that I’m eating, because I’m as guilty as anyone of dehumanizing the plate of prosciutto (or whatever) that’s set before me.

Thanks for asking me about this - it’s such an important question, and one that I absolutely want to explore going forward.

Tell me: what are your thoughts on this subject?

Jan 20, 10 6:27pm - Comments
ANNOUNCING…COMMENTS!
(See how super-excited I am, despite my dirty hands?)
Going forward, you’ll notice a little change on this site: I’ve enabled moderated comments! At least, I think I have. An HTML expert I am not…so bear with me if things are a little rocky at first.
Remember: the purpose of this site is to be a friendly, safe, lovely place, so feel free to chat away about cooking, entertaining, DIY projects, home decor, and the like. I absolutely encourage constructive criticism, but let’s keep things civilized and topical, OK? I am so excited about this development…I can’t wait to hear what you have to say!
And if you have something to say to me that you don’t feel like making public, always feel free to shoot me an email at jordan@nonsociety.com.
Thank you so much for joining me on this site.

ANNOUNCING…COMMENTS!

(See how super-excited I am, despite my dirty hands?)

Going forward, you’ll notice a little change on this site: I’ve enabled moderated comments! At least, I think I have. An HTML expert I am not…so bear with me if things are a little rocky at first.

Remember: the purpose of this site is to be a friendly, safe, lovely place, so feel free to chat away about cooking, entertaining, DIY projects, home decor, and the like. I absolutely encourage constructive criticism, but let’s keep things civilized and topical, OK? I am so excited about this development…I can’t wait to hear what you have to say!

And if you have something to say to me that you don’t feel like making public, always feel free to shoot me an email at jordan@nonsociety.com.

Thank you so much for joining me on this site.

Jan 18, 10 9:29am - Comments
In February of 2007, I was hired for what might be the most bizarre, amazing job I’ve ever had. If you read Gawker, you might remember coverage of “The Cat People” during Fashion Week? That was me (with brown hair)!
Trovata hired me and another actor named Clint to take on the roles of “Elisabeta and Nicolae Petrescu,” siblings from some obscure Eastern European royal family who had arrived in New York to “take Fashion Week by storm.” Basically, what they did was make us famous socialites overnight: they hired a fancy PR team to get us in wherever we wanted to go, and drove us around town in a white vintage Rolls Royce accompanied by bodyguards and a “cat handler” (we carried a very smelly pussycat with us wherever we went). The theory was that this would get more press for the brand than a simple (and expensive) fashion show…and it worked! I even had HARVEY WEINSTEIN come up to me, wanting to meet “the new socialite in town.” Of course, I “couldn’t speak English,” so I just babbled something to him in a made-up language and escaped back into my publicist’s comforting arms. Eek.
It probably didn’t hurt that Anna Wintour was in on the whole thing.
Go here and here for Radar’s coverage of the stunt.
Go here for the Wall Street Journal’s coverage.
Go here for more Gawker coverage, along with some fun comments (I love TedSez).
Above image from Style.com

In February of 2007, I was hired for what might be the most bizarre, amazing job I’ve ever had. If you read Gawker, you might remember coverage of “The Cat People” during Fashion Week? That was me (with brown hair)!

Trovata hired me and another actor named Clint to take on the roles of “Elisabeta and Nicolae Petrescu,” siblings from some obscure Eastern European royal family who had arrived in New York to “take Fashion Week by storm.” Basically, what they did was make us famous socialites overnight: they hired a fancy PR team to get us in wherever we wanted to go, and drove us around town in a white vintage Rolls Royce accompanied by bodyguards and a “cat handler” (we carried a very smelly pussycat with us wherever we went). The theory was that this would get more press for the brand than a simple (and expensive) fashion show…and it worked! I even had HARVEY WEINSTEIN come up to me, wanting to meet “the new socialite in town.” Of course, I “couldn’t speak English,” so I just babbled something to him in a made-up language and escaped back into my publicist’s comforting arms. Eek.

It probably didn’t hurt that Anna Wintour was in on the whole thing.

Go here and here for Radar’s coverage of the stunt.

Go here for the Wall Street Journal’s coverage.

Go here for more Gawker coverage, along with some fun comments (I love TedSez).

Above image from Style.com

Jan 18, 10 9:28am - Comments

A few more Style.com images from the Trovata Fashion Week stunt (those are extensions; my hair has never been that long and flowy). These shots were taken relatively late in Fashion Week, and I was exhausted (as you can kinda see in these shots). We were up by nine every day to go to hair and makeup, at events and shows by eleven, and generally worked until two or three in the morning.

Trust me, I know that swanning around Fashion Week parties drinking champagne hardly sounds like hard work, but when you have to be playing a role every single second, and screwing up means getting outed as actors…well, it was quite tiring stuff. I did actually end up getting outed, and by Arden Wohl, no less (we went to Dalton together).

Arden came running up to me in Beatrice Inn: “Jordan?!”

I just sort of mumbled something in “Romanian.”

“Why are you pretending that you don’t speak English?”

And at that, I had one of my bodyguards whisk me away.

Jan 18, 10 9:27am - Comments
Incidentally, this was the week I met Kendrick: we had been corresponding a bit over email because I had friend-requested his band on MySpace (I went to high school with two of the members) and he developed a bit of a long-distance crush; when I mentioned that I’d be in New York for Fashion Week (I was living in LA at the time) he insisted that we meet. I told him I couldn’t - as I said, we were working 17-hour days - but he was relentless, and I ended up meeting him at an all-night diner at three in the morning for our first date. He brought a flower, and a bottle of red wine and a bottle of white wine, because he didn’t know which I preferred.
A few short weeks later, we were engaged.

Incidentally, this was the week I met Kendrick: we had been corresponding a bit over email because I had friend-requested his band on MySpace (I went to high school with two of the members) and he developed a bit of a long-distance crush; when I mentioned that I’d be in New York for Fashion Week (I was living in LA at the time) he insisted that we meet. I told him I couldn’t - as I said, we were working 17-hour days - but he was relentless, and I ended up meeting him at an all-night diner at three in the morning for our first date. He brought a flower, and a bottle of red wine and a bottle of white wine, because he didn’t know which I preferred.

A few short weeks later, we were engaged.

Jan 14, 10 10:02am - Comments

DIY Thank You Card with Marivi (marivi.manaluz@mac.com).

1. Cut a 7”x5” square from 80 lb. paper and fold in half.

2. Rub seam with bone folder to to sharpen crease.

3. Apply marker to a floral stamp (can be found in any craft store) in desired colors/pattern (we used pink on the buds and green on the stems).

4. Press stamp firmly down on card (no wiggling!).

5. Using a glue pen, dot glue onto the areas where you’d like glitter.

6. Shake over a little glitter, remove excess with a soft brush, and let dry.

7. Cut out a small rectangle of paper in the same color as the card (about 1.5”x.5”) and, using a roll-on adhesive, glue cutout to a piece of cardstock in a contrasting color.

8. Cut a “border” from the contrasting cardstock about 1/8” around the rectangle. Attach to card using roll-on adhesive.

9. Write out your message!

Jan 11, 10 9:36am - Comments
One of the many ways I made our wedding more affordable: I ordered blank place cards from Wedding Paper Divas (style: Natural Wildflower) and hand-wrote guests’ names on them. A little time consuming? Sure…but also a really nice, personal touch.
I also hand-wrote the menus, placing one in the center of each table in a small picture-frame holder.
Tip: If you don’t have particularly good handwriting, ask a friend who does to help you out as her wedding gift to you.
More money-saving ideas for your wedding:
- DIY save-the-dates
- Partially DIY invitations
- Using bridesmaids bouquets as centerpieces
- Hors d’oeuvres-only
- Incorporating guest favors into your decor
- DIY favors (lavender sachets)

One of the many ways I made our wedding more affordable: I ordered blank place cards from Wedding Paper Divas (style: Natural Wildflower) and hand-wrote guests’ names on them. A little time consuming? Sure…but also a really nice, personal touch.

I also hand-wrote the menus, placing one in the center of each table in a small picture-frame holder.

Tip: If you don’t have particularly good handwriting, ask a friend who does to help you out as her wedding gift to you.

More money-saving ideas for your wedding:

- DIY save-the-dates

- Partially DIY invitations

- Using bridesmaids bouquets as centerpieces

- Hors d’oeuvres-only

- Incorporating guest favors into your decor

- DIY favors (lavender sachets)

Jan 05, 10 10:42am - Comments
In recent days, I’ve been getting a bunch of inquiries about my makeup routine (most of them came after I published this New Year’s Eve photo, which is a pretty good example of how I do my makeup on a daily basis).
My approach to makeup has changed slightly since I’ve been taking photographs almost every day: I used to do very heavy eyes and light lips (like this), but I’ve noticed that what seems to work better for me nowadays is more evenly distributed color (at least something on the lips, and less dramatic eyes).
So. What I use:
- Either Stila Perfecting Foundation or Bare Escentuals Foundation from the Get Started Kit in Light (when I have more time to play) on necessary areas; if you need more coverage, I’d go for the Stila
- MAC Studio Fix Powder in C3 for spots (I would avoid this if you’re prone to breakouts; I have a couple of friends who say that it clogs their pores, although I haven’t noticed that personally)
- NARS Laguna bronzer (this is the only thing I won’t emerge from the house without using) dusted onto face and neck
- NARS Super Orgasm blush (I also like Angelika, which is a cotton candy pink with a bit of sparkle, but it works better on darker skin than mine)
- A little MAC eyebrow pencil, if I’m feeling perfectionist-y
- A blend of brown and purple eyeshadows from a Tarte palette (similar to this one); this is the step that varies most dramatically depending on time of day and where I’m headed; I also think that Nars Shimmer Eyeshadow in Ondine is a perfect everyday neutral
- Sephora liquid eyeliner, winged out a bit at the ends (this brand of liquid eyeliner gives you the most bang for your buck)
- Urban Decay 24/7 Glide-On Eyeliner in Zero (black) on inner rims of lower lids and smudged on top of liquid eyeliner to increase staying power
- Maybelline Colossal Mascara in Classic Black
- Lip balm followed by a swipe of Bare Escentuals Red Zin lipstick or InColor by Jordana Squeeze ‘n’ Shine pink gloss (get it at any drugstore)

In recent days, I’ve been getting a bunch of inquiries about my makeup routine (most of them came after I published this New Year’s Eve photo, which is a pretty good example of how I do my makeup on a daily basis).

My approach to makeup has changed slightly since I’ve been taking photographs almost every day: I used to do very heavy eyes and light lips (like this), but I’ve noticed that what seems to work better for me nowadays is more evenly distributed color (at least something on the lips, and less dramatic eyes).

So. What I use:

- Either Stila Perfecting Foundation or Bare Escentuals Foundation from the Get Started Kit in Light (when I have more time to play) on necessary areas; if you need more coverage, I’d go for the Stila

- MAC Studio Fix Powder in C3 for spots (I would avoid this if you’re prone to breakouts; I have a couple of friends who say that it clogs their pores, although I haven’t noticed that personally)

- NARS Laguna bronzer (this is the only thing I won’t emerge from the house without using) dusted onto face and neck

- NARS Super Orgasm blush (I also like Angelika, which is a cotton candy pink with a bit of sparkle, but it works better on darker skin than mine)

- A little MAC eyebrow pencil, if I’m feeling perfectionist-y

- A blend of brown and purple eyeshadows from a Tarte palette (similar to this one); this is the step that varies most dramatically depending on time of day and where I’m headed; I also think that Nars Shimmer Eyeshadow in Ondine is a perfect everyday neutral

- Sephora liquid eyeliner, winged out a bit at the ends (this brand of liquid eyeliner gives you the most bang for your buck)

- Urban Decay 24/7 Glide-On Eyeliner in Zero (black) on inner rims of lower lids and smudged on top of liquid eyeliner to increase staying power

- Maybelline Colossal Mascara in Classic Black

- Lip balm followed by a swipe of Bare Escentuals Red Zin lipstick or InColor by Jordana Squeeze ‘n’ Shine pink gloss (get it at any drugstore)

Jan 04, 10 11:02am - Comments

You know how I write a lot about food? Post a lot of recipes? Early on in this Lifecast, I addressed the issue of what exactly my attitude is towards cooking and cheffery in general, but I think it bears repeating. 

I am SO TOTALLY not a professional in the kitchen, and I harbor no illusions about this fact. I got interested in cooking when I was about 13, read cookbooks front-to-back as if they’re novels, and try to make cool stuff for dinner as often as I can…and that’s it, really. I have lots of friends who run circles around me in the kitchen (here’s one of them), and if you ask me how to cook a duck, I’m going to run straight to Epicurious. But I love food, and I love playing with it, and I REALLY love writing about it…and I love telling you about things that I love. 

I wrote this awhile back, in a post reviewing David Kamp’s The United States of Arugula:

“Facility with knives and pots is no prerequisite to genuinely enjoying food, and to being experimental with your tastebuds. I, for example, cook with cookbooks. I can’t go into a supermarket, grab random ingredients off the shelves, and whip something amazing up based purely on the knowledge bank stored in my head. But do I think that invalidates my interest in food and cooking? Not in the slightest.”

Why do I feel like it’s OK for me to write about food and cooking, even though I never went to culinary school and I still have to cook with computer close at hand, because I always forget how to do something or other? Because I think that food is fun. Cooking is fun.

And if you’re new in the kitchen, or just not quite an expert, lots of people will try to make you feel like you don’t belong there (“no, no…you’re doing it all wrong, oh, just let me show you”), and that makes me sad. You do belong in the kitchen. Everyone does! So go ahead: play with flour, try mixing pickles with pasta, maybe even burn your potatoes once in awhile: it’s not rocket science, it’s eating…and it’s supposed to make you happy.

Dec 30, 09 10:03am - Comments
HOW TO CARE FOR YOUR SHOWER CURTAIN (a.k.a. “Things I Don’t Do…But Probably Should”):
- Fabric shower curtains should be washed in hot water at least once a month (add a little bleach to kill bacteria). Hang back on hooks to dry.
- Plastic shower curtains should be wiped down with hot water and detergent once a month. You can also throw them in the washing machine with a few towels (the friction from the towels will help clean the plastic). 
- Replace your shower curtain once a year, or immediately if you notice any mold starting to grow. You can lengthen the life of your shower curtain by using a liner, which can be purchased at any hardware store. 
- Make sure your bathroom has decent ventilation; open a window or turn on a fan after bathing.
- Close the shower curtain completely after bathing so that it dries evenly (I do this! Whew…one down).
- Clean your bathroom thoroughly at least once a week to prevent mildew from growing (whether or not I do this depends heavily on your definition of “thoroughly”); also consider painting it with mildew-proof paint.
Above: Martha Stewart Trousseau shower curtain, available at Macy’s. Go here for some other lovely styles. 

HOW TO CARE FOR YOUR SHOWER CURTAIN (a.k.a. “Things I Don’t Do…But Probably Should”):

- Fabric shower curtains should be washed in hot water at least once a month (add a little bleach to kill bacteria). Hang back on hooks to dry.

- Plastic shower curtains should be wiped down with hot water and detergent once a month. You can also throw them in the washing machine with a few towels (the friction from the towels will help clean the plastic). 

- Replace your shower curtain once a year, or immediately if you notice any mold starting to grow. You can lengthen the life of your shower curtain by using a liner, which can be purchased at any hardware store. 

- Make sure your bathroom has decent ventilation; open a window or turn on a fan after bathing.

- Close the shower curtain completely after bathing so that it dries evenly (I do this! Whew…one down).

- Clean your bathroom thoroughly at least once a week to prevent mildew from growing (whether or not I do this depends heavily on your definition of “thoroughly”); also consider painting it with mildew-proof paint.

Above: Martha Stewart Trousseau shower curtain, available at Macy’s. Go here for some other lovely styles. 

Dec 28, 09 12:07pm - Comments
MMM…POT ROAST!
What you need:
Meat! You get about 2-3 servings per pound of boneless, and 2 servings per pound of bone-in. Try chuck, brisket, top round, or bottom round…and buy a bigger piece than you think you’ll need. Oh, and if it’s tied up with twine, leave it that way…you can remove the twine after it’s cooked.
Vegetables! I get a few potatoes, a couple of yams, some baby carrots, some parsnips, and an onion, but do as you like.
Seasonings! I use season salt and garlic powder, but you can season the meat with lots of different things, from just salt and pepper to fresh garlic and herbs.
Olive oil
Beef broth
What you do: 
1. Generously season the meat on all sides.
2. Add a couple of glugs of olive oil to your heavy-bottomed pot, and, using a sturdy pair of tongs, transfer the meat into the pot.
3. Brown the meat on all sides. Be careful not to burn it! You just want to seal in the color and flavor, not cook the meat. 
4. Add your braising liquid to the pot (I use about 6 cups of beef broth) and bring to a low boil. The liquid should almost - but not quite - cover the meat. Add a peeled, halved onion and cover. 
5. Find a cozy seat, preferably one that comes complete with puppies. You’re going to be there awhile. 
6. Let the roast cook for 4-6 hours, depending on size. It’s done when you can put a couple of forks in it and pull it apart easily into delicious strings.
7. About 20 minutes before you think your roast will be done, add your peeled, cut-up vegetables to the pot (add more broth if needed); cook until fork-tender.
8. I like to serve my pot roast as a kind of stew, with lots of liquid. You can thicken the liquid by mixing some flour into a cup of cold water, and then pouring it into the pot. 
9. Serve with buttered bread to mop everything up. 

MMM…POT ROAST!

What you need:

Meat! You get about 2-3 servings per pound of boneless, and 2 servings per pound of bone-in. Try chuck, brisket, top round, or bottom round…and buy a bigger piece than you think you’ll need. Oh, and if it’s tied up with twine, leave it that way…you can remove the twine after it’s cooked.

Vegetables! I get a few potatoes, a couple of yams, some baby carrots, some parsnips, and an onion, but do as you like.

Seasonings! I use season salt and garlic powder, but you can season the meat with lots of different things, from just salt and pepper to fresh garlic and herbs.

Olive oil

Beef broth

What you do: 

1. Generously season the meat on all sides.

2. Add a couple of glugs of olive oil to your heavy-bottomed pot, and, using a sturdy pair of tongs, transfer the meat into the pot.

3. Brown the meat on all sides. Be careful not to burn it! You just want to seal in the color and flavor, not cook the meat. 

4. Add your braising liquid to the pot (I use about 6 cups of beef broth) and bring to a low boil. The liquid should almost - but not quite - cover the meat. Add a peeled, halved onion and cover. 

5. Find a cozy seat, preferably one that comes complete with puppies. You’re going to be there awhile. 

6. Let the roast cook for 4-6 hours, depending on size. It’s done when you can put a couple of forks in it and pull it apart easily into delicious strings.

7. About 20 minutes before you think your roast will be done, add your peeled, cut-up vegetables to the pot (add more broth if needed); cook until fork-tender.

8. I like to serve my pot roast as a kind of stew, with lots of liquid. You can thicken the liquid by mixing some flour into a cup of cold water, and then pouring it into the pot. 

9. Serve with buttered bread to mop everything up. 

Dec 25, 09 1:31pm - Comments
Kendrick gets a Christmas wallop from Lucy, who is more than a little furious at the idea of having a new baby brother. 

Kendrick gets a Christmas wallop from Lucy, who is more than a little furious at the idea of having a new baby brother

Dec 21, 09 11:20am - Comments
For the perfect holiday tablescape, try this gorgeous centerpiece by Rebecca Shepherd.
DIY TOPIARY CENTERPIECE
What you need:
Long-stemmed flowers (we chose lilies because of their dramatic shape and color)
Green foliage and smaller flowers in a complementary color for the base
Square vase
Wet foam (can be found at any local craft store)
Optional: ivy
What you do: 
1. Soak the foam in water until all the bubbles come out.
2. Cut the foam to fit tightly into your vase.
3. Take a lily stem in your left hand (if you’re a righty), then add in stems crossing from the back at a 45 degree angle and turning before each addition.
4. Once you’ve added in all your flowers, tie the neck together with some raffia, twine, or wire.
5. Cut the stems to the desired length, and carefully guide the stems down into the center of the wet foam.
6. Next, add in some foliage to cover most of the foam, and place your secondary flower (above, we used yellow mums) in the base wherever desired.
7. For a final touch of pizzazz, just clip some ivy and wrap it around the middle!
WATCH THE VIDEO HERE.

For the perfect holiday tablescape, try this gorgeous centerpiece by Rebecca Shepherd.

DIY TOPIARY CENTERPIECE

What you need:

Long-stemmed flowers (we chose lilies because of their dramatic shape and color)

Green foliage and smaller flowers in a complementary color for the base

Square vase

Wet foam (can be found at any local craft store)

Optional: ivy

What you do: 

1. Soak the foam in water until all the bubbles come out.

2. Cut the foam to fit tightly into your vase.

3. Take a lily stem in your left hand (if you’re a righty), then add in stems crossing from the back at a 45 degree angle and turning before each addition.

4. Once you’ve added in all your flowers, tie the neck together with some raffia, twine, or wire.

5. Cut the stems to the desired length, and carefully guide the stems down into the center of the wet foam.

6. Next, add in some foliage to cover most of the foam, and place your secondary flower (above, we used yellow mums) in the base wherever desired.

7. For a final touch of pizzazz, just clip some ivy and wrap it around the middle!

WATCH THE VIDEO HERE.

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